Many years ago during one of my annual Chinese New Year gathering with my ex school mates, my dear friend Keatlim asked me when I am going to have a kid since I have been married for a year. I told him I am not ready yet citing a lot of reasons and he gave me one very interesting and mind changing reply. The jist of what he trying to tell me is, I may be now planning everything base on sure strike rate but what if few years down the road when I am ready to have a kid but my body or my wife's body is not? What if we cant concieved? What about things that you have no control over it? Well, I changed my mind from that moment and allow faith to take its course. Now I have two kids already, should I allow what faith has in for plan for me to go on and have another one or two more?
2 comments:
really going for the 3rd one ah? hehe... one of my church members just gave birth to a baby girl today--their third!
Jumping on to the more than two kids bandwagon! Also to keep the ratio of chinese in check.hehe
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